Thank you for visiting the blog today!

I started writing this blog for personal reasons.  I needed a ‘safe’ place  to share and go through recovery to have healthier relationships.

I didn’t know that I had grown up with a Narcissistic Mother until 2010.  A bad friendship with a co-worker in 2009 led me to discover what NPD (narcissistic personality disorder) is.  Like so many, I found comfort in many blogs (a list of the one’s I visit regularly are listed on the sidebar under Blogroll). It was only in blogs that I was able to understand what I was feeling about many relationships I had had and how I was never able to ‘get along’ with my mother.

However you found your way here I hope your journey is going well and you find this blog a safe place to share how you are feeling.  I share with you anonymously.

Whatever the situation you find yourself in, you are your own voice.  This blog represents mine.  Thank you for listening.

xx TR

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  1. Hello dear T Reddy, love your blog! I have been reading about narcissism for a couple of years now, also because of a very difficult frenemy (now just an enemy… bleh). I wish I’d stumbled on your site sooner! Anyway, I identify with so much you say here. Thanks for that. Also, I wanted you to know about another great resource, in case you want to add it to your good reading list or just check out yourself. The site is: http://www.manipulative-people.com, it’s Dr. George Simon’s site. He authored 2 amazing books that have brought me terrific clarity and understanding. I hadn’t known about some of these other good reads that you list. They are great and I appreciate these resources and all the info, experience and honesty you bring to your blog:) All the best!


  2. Hi I discovered your post…..because i struggle with saying goodbye to people onece i meet them hang out a few times and know they are not someone i want in my life..the challenge of getting rid of toxic people.
    I too have what I would deem a violent, abusive, sociopath mother.
    Anyways i am going to read some more. Thanks for writing.


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