Referring to the post, A Legal Drug, that discusses narcissistic supply, I am following up with my visit from Peggy. Peggy, a schoolmate that is a frenemy, came to visit me a few weeks ago…and I stated that she needed her narc supply because I am currently unemployed…she needed to make herself feel better…well, for the first day I spent with her…all her comments were like this (and pretty much the second day):
- ‘T Reddy, just think we wouldn’t be able to see each other on a weekday if you had a job.’
- ‘So great we can go to the museum together, you were able to join us because you weren’t working.’
- ‘Too bad your boyfriend couldn’t join us, well, he is working so he couldn’t.’
- Peggy to my boyfriend, ‘It was so great that T Reddy could spend time with us yesterday, luckily she didn’t have to go to work’
Well, I think there is no more to say on this subject, she constantly reminded me that I am out of a job…she got her overdose of narcissistic supply. My response was of no response. Why would I respond to a frenemy, someone who is not interested in my well-being, no point in wasting your breath. Ahhh…one of the few legal drugs available today…narc supply.